Showing posts with label Wisdom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wisdom. Show all posts

Wednesday, 15 January 2025

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran: A Book Review

Book: The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran

Page Count: 107

Publication: Alfred A. Knopf

Edition: 1923


Summary

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran is a masterpiece of prose poetry, imbued with mysticism and universal truth. Gibran, a Lebanese-American writer, poet, and artist, was often regarded as a philosopher, though he himself rejected the label. The Prophet is said to have been translated over 100 languages and is one of the best selling books of all time.

The book presents the wisdom of Al Mustafa, the central character, who has lived in the city of Orphalese for 12 years. As he prepares to board a ship which will take him home, the people of the city ask him to share his wisdom on various facets of life, such as love, marriage, children, work, death, and more. Through Al Mustafa, the writer offers profound insights into these topics. 


Positive Side

The book is short enough to be read in one sitting, yet its true essence unfolds when savored slowly, allowing time to reflect on its profound messages. A thoughtful reader will naturally pause to ponder the insights woven into its sentences or paragraphs. Deep thinkers will find immense value in its pages. The book does not seem to emerge from mere intellectual reasoning; instead, it feels as though it is drawn from a higher, universal source. To borrow the writer’s style: “The book is not the writer’s creation; it is not his, though it comes through him.” It is a work of genius, an extraordinary blend of literary and spiritual insight.


Negative Side

Readers seeking actionable guidance or practical advice may find this book less satisfying. It does not provide a roadmap or list of tasks to improve one’s life in tangible ways. Instead, the book operates on a deeper, more subtle level, stirring the soul and altering the state of being.

In a world driven by productivity and material goals, this book might seem like a collection of beautiful but impractical words—more a luxury of introspection than a tool for achieving worldly success. For some, this could be seen as a limitation. However, those willing to embrace its mystical and transformative power will find that it changes them in ways that are profound, albeit intangible.


Conclusion

The Prophet is a must-read for anyone drawn to mysticism or seeking a fresh perspective on life’s timeless themes. It is a book that touches the soul, leaving readers feeling changed and enriched. Fans of Paulo Coelho’s works will likely find a place for this book in their hearts.

Highly recommended for deep thinkers, introspective readers, and anyone needing a brief yet meaningful escape from the noise of the world, this book is a treasure to be cherished.


Words from the Book

"Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.

They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you yet they belong not to you."

Rajendra Maharjan

Conact: teacher.rajen@gmail.com

Monday, 29 May 2023

The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea

The Go-Giver is a captivating and thought-provoking business parable that challenges conventional notions of success and provides a refreshing perspective on achieving true prosperity. Written by Bob Burg and John David Mann, this small book of 144 pages takes readers on a transformative journey, blending storytelling with valuable lessons on the power of giving.


The narrative follows the character of Joe, a young and ambitious professional striving to excel in the competitive world of sales. Frustrated by his lack of progress, Joe seeks guidance from a legendary mentor named Pindar. What follows is a series of encounters with influential individuals who impart five fundamental principles that redefine Joe's understanding of success. The five laws, also referred to as the Five Laws of Stratospheric Success mentioned in the book are:


1. The Law of Value: 

Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment. This law emphasizes the importance of providing exceptional value to others and focusing on their needs and desires.


2. The Law of Compensation: 

Your income is determined by how many people you serve and how well you serve them. By serving a greater number of people and meeting their needs effectively, you create opportunities for greater compensation and success.


3. The Law of Influence:

Your influence is determined by how abundantly you place other people's interests first. Building genuine relationships based on trust, goodwill, and a focus on others' well-being allows you to have a positive influence and create a strong network of support.


4. The Law of Authenticity: 

The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself. Being authentic and true to yourself allows you to bring your unique strengths and qualities to the table, attracting the right opportunities and connections.


5. The Law of Receptivity: 

The key to effective giving is to stay open to receiving. By being receptive to help, insights, and opportunities from others, you create a reciprocal flow of abundance and allow for continued growth and success..


In conclusion, The Go-Giver is an insightful short read emphasizing the importance of giving value to the customers in order to generate abundance of income. The writing style of the book can be compared with "5 AM Club" by Robin Sharma. The similarity of the two books is limited only to the writing style. Unlike 5 AM Club, The Go-Giver's concise narrative successfully conveys its message without leaving readers feeling bored, thanks to its brevity. Readers who find enjoyment in "The Go-Giver" are likely to appreciate "Who Moved My Cheese" by Spencer Johnson as well.


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A few words extracted from this amazing book:      


"All things being equal, people will do business with and refer business to those people they know, like and trust." 

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"Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment"

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"Your income is determined by how many people you serve and how well you serve them."

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"What you focus is what you get."

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"Your influence is determined by how abundantly you place other people's interest first."

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Thursday, 14 April 2022

Devotion to the Buddha

Bhikkhu Vakkali was devoted to the Buddha. His adoration was patent for all to see. Whether the Buddha was preaching, walking, or meditating, the eyes of Bhikkhu Vakkali were fixed upon him raptly. Just as the eyes of a lover devour the form of the beloved, so the gaze of Bhikkhu was fixed to the majestic features of the enlightened one.

The Buddha called Vakkali amidst the assembly and said,"Why do you constantly gaze at my body, which is transitory, subject to suffering and without essence? Why do your eyes constantly dwell on this corporeal form, which is nothing but a sack of impurities? It would be better for you to seek out a forest retreat and there strive earnestly to gain that liberation which brings all formations to an end."

Giving him the subject of meditation, he dismissed the monk. The Bhikkhu thereupon retired to the forest, strove earnestly for insight, and after some time duly attained Arahantship. 

Moral: Attachment to the Guru can also be hindrance for liberation.

Friday, 1 October 2021

The Ocean

A little wave was bobbing along in the ocean, having a grand time. It was enjoying the wind and the fresh air until it noticed the other waves in front crashing against the shore.

"My God, this is terrible," the wave said. "Look what's going to happen to me?"

Then came along another wave. It saw the first wave, looking grim, it asked, "Why do you look so sad?"

The first wave replied, "We're all going to crash! All of us waves are going to be nothing. Isn't it terrible?"

The second wave said, "No, you don't understand. Actually, you're not a wave, you're a part of the ocean. You are the ocean."

Saturday, 25 September 2021

The Wolf and the Lion

Roaming by the mountainside at sundown, a Wolf saw his own shadow become greatly extended and magnified, and he said to himself, “Why should I, being of such an immense size and extending nearly an acre in length, be afraid of the Lion? Ought I not to be acknowledged as King of all the collected beasts?’ While he was indulging in these proud thoughts, a Lion fell upon him and killed him. 

Moral: Overestimating self might be destructive.


-Aesop's fable


Wednesday, 15 September 2021

मधुशाला

मुसलमान औ' हिन्दू है दो, एक मगर उनका प्याला, 

एक मगर उनका मदिरालय, एक मगर उनकी हाला, 

दोनों रहते एक न जब तक मस्जिद मन्दिर में जाते, 

बैर बढ़ाते मस्जिद मन्दिर मेल कराती मधुशाला!

- हरिवंश राय बच्चन 

Friday, 23 July 2021

Helping the World

Once there was a monk who lived up in the mountains. One day a young seeker came to meet him in search of wisdom. 

The young seeker asked, "Why do you spend your time meditating? Should not our duty be to help people by doing charitable work for the betterment of the world?"

The monk questioned, "What is the meaning of the world?"

The young man thought for some time and said, "I think the world means everything around us."

The monk then explained, "The world is such a vague term. The world is made not only of people but animals, insects, plants, water, air, soil and many things which are beyond our senses. You can never help the world because the world is enormous and you are just a microscopic part of this vast universe. People are always entangled in their own ego-boosting game. Whatever you do, if you are not doing it with the awareness of the impermanence of your act and the world, you are just playing with your ego. It does not matter if it's the act of charity or the act of cruelty."


-Rajendra


Saturday, 26 June 2021

The Sun and The Wind

The wind always boasted of his mighty strength. The wind was of the view that fierceness, might, and strength always wins over gentleness. But the sun argued that gentleness and kindness are more important to get things done. The debate heated up. The wind challenged the sun for a test. 

A man was walking on a road. The wind said, "You try with your gentleness and I will use my strength to make that man take off his coat. Do you agree to test?"  

The sun consented. Then the wind began to blow the air with all its might. As the wind blew, the man who was walking grabbed his coat. The more the wind became fierce, the tighter was the grip on the coat. The wind blew with all its might causing a fierce storm. But, the man grabbed the coat even tighter. After a long effort, the wind got tired and gave up.

Now it was the sun's turn. The sun gently smiled. As the sun got brighter, the man felt hot and he took off his coat.

Moral: More things are accomplished with gentleness and kindness than strength and force. 

-Based on Aesop's fable



Sunday, 13 June 2021

The Third Force

A myrmecologist said, "If you put 100 red ant and 100 black ants in a jar, nothing will happen. They will co-exist in harmony. But if someone shakes the jar violently, and puts the ants on a table, they start attacking each other and kill each other. The black ants think the red ones caused the tremble and the red ants think the black ones are responsible. They don't realize that the trembling is caused by the third force."


The above statement holds true for all human relations as well. Next time when you are about to have a conflict with someone, think first if there exists a third force. 


तेस्रो शक्ति 


एकजना कमिलासम्बन्धी अनुसन्धानकर्ताले भनेका थिए, "१०० वटा कालो कमिला र १०० वटा रातो कमिला एकै भाडोमा राख्दा केहि हुदैन. ती कमिलाहरु मिलेर बस्छन्. तर त्यस भाडालाई बेस्सरी हल्लाएर ती कमिलाहरुलाई टेबलमा छोडिदियो भने एक-अर्कासंग झगडा गर्न थाल्छन् र एकले अर्कालाई मार्छन्.काला कमिलाहरुलाई लाग्छ राता कमिलाले गर्दा त्यो कम्पन भएको हो र राता कमिलाहरुलाई लाग्छ त्यो कम्पनको कारण सेता कमिला हुन्. बास्तवमा त्यस कम्पनको दोषी तेस्रो शक्ति हो भन्ने उनीहरुले थाहा नै पाउदैनन . "

माथिको भनाई मानव सम्बन्धमा पनि लागू हुन्छ. अर्कोपल्ट कसैसंग मनमुटाब हुनलाग्दा सोच्ने गरौँ कतै यो द्वन्दको कारण कुनै तेस्रो शक्ति त होइन. 



Friday, 5 March 2021

The Last Hurdle

When Mahavir left this world, Gautam, his closest disciple, was out of the town. On returning, Gautam was informed that Mahavir has passed away. All his life Gautam was near Mahavir, but he was not there at the last moment of Mahavir's life. He felt he was very unfortunate. He began to cry and said, "I didn't attain nirvana (salvation) while He (Mahavir) was alive. How do I attain nirvana now?" He then asked, "Did he leave any message for me?"

"Yes, Mahavir's last message was - Gautam, you have renounced everything. When will you renounce me?"

It is said that Gautam attained nirvana at that very moment.

Friday, 26 February 2021

 


A Town Mouse once visited a relative who lived in the country. For lunch, the Country Mouse served wheat stalks, roots, and acorns, with a dash of cold water for a drink. The Town Mouse ate very sparingly, nibbling a little of this and a little of that, and by her manner making it very plain that she ate the simple food only to be polite.


After the meal the friends had a long talk, or rather the Town Mouse talked about her life in the city while the Country Mouse listened. They then went to bed in a cozy nest in the hedgerow and slept in quiet and comfort until morning. In her sleep, the Country Mouse dreamed she was a Town Mouse with all the luxuries and delights of city life that her friend had described for her. So the next day when the Town Mouse asked the Country Mouse to go home with her to the city, she gladly said yes.


When they reached the mansion in which the Town Mouse lived, they found on the table in the dining room the leavings of a very fine banquet. There were sweetmeats and jellies, pastries, delicious cheeses, indeed, the most tempting foods that a Mouse can imagine. But just as the Country Mouse was about to nibble a dainty bit of pastry, she heard a Cat mew loudly and scratch at the door. In great fear the Mice scurried to a hiding place, where they lay quite still for a long time, hardly daring to breathe. When at last they ventured back to the feast, the door opened suddenly and in came the servants to clear the table, followed by the House Dog.


The Country Mouse stopped in the Town Mouse's den only long enough to pick up her carpetbag and umbrella.


"You may have luxuries and dainties that I have not," she said as she hurried away, "but I prefer my plain food and simple life in the country with the peace and security that go with it."


-based on Aesop's Fable


Saturday, 21 November 2020

Prescription

We can compare the practice to a bottle of medicine a doctor leaves for his patient. On the bottle are written detailed instructions on how to take the medicine. No matter how many times the patient may read the directions, he is bound to die if that is all he does. He will gain no benefit from the medicine. And before he dies, he may complain bitterly that the doctor wasn’t any good, that the medicine didn’t cure him. He will think that the doctor was a fake or that the medicine was worthless, yet he had only spent his time examining the bottle and reading the instructions. He hadn’t followed the advice of the doctor and taken the medicine. However, if the patient had actually followed the doctor’s advice and taken the medicine regularly as prescribed, he would have recovered. The teachings of the Buddha are prescribed to cure diseases of the mind and to bring it back to its natural healthy state. So the Buddha can be considered as a doctor who prescribes cures for the illnesses of the mind which are found in each one of us without exception.


-Based on "A Tree in the Forest" by Ajahn Chah

Sunday, 15 November 2020

The Fox and the Grapes

While walking through the woods, the fox saw a vine full of grapes hanging on a branch of a tree. The fox's mouth watered. But the grapes hung from a high branch and the fox had to jump for it. It jumped to reach the grapes, but could not. It tried several times but could not reach the grapes. At last, the fox was fed up and it gave up. The fox walked away saying, "Anyway, those grapes are sour."


Insight: People often despise things that they cannot achieve. 

Saturday, 7 November 2020

The Stone

There was a famous sculptor in a village who converted stones into marvellous pieces of art. The villagers wanted to build a temple of Lord Ganesh in their village. For that, they needed the statue of Lord Ganesh. They commissioned the job to the sculptor. 

The sculptor searched for the right kind of the stone for carving on a bank of the river where he usually went. Not all the stones were good for the carving. After searching for a while, he found a perfect stone for the work. With his expertise in the stone, he knew he could find no better stone than that one. He brought the stone to his workshop and started carving it. As he started to hit the hammer on the chisel, the stone cried, "Please stop it, I can't bear the pain!"

The sculptor said, "But you'll make the finest statue. You're the perfect and deserving stone to become the statue of Lord Ganesh. Endure this pain and you will be converted into the statue of Lord Ganesh."

"I'm sorry, I can't endure this pain", pleaded the stone, "Please leave me." 

The sculptor then put the stone in a corner of his workshop and went to the riverbank in search of another stone. Not finding a better stone, he had to pick a stone which was a little inferior to the first one. After coming back with the second stone, he started working on it. He started to hammer it. The stone endured the pain of the hammer and the chisel. After a few days of carving the stone had turned into the beautiful statue of Lord Ganesh.  

The statue of Lord Ganesh was taken by the villagers. The jubilant villagers took rally all around the streets of the village before the statue was placed in the temple. As time passed by, not only the villagers but people from far away also came to worship Lord Ganesh in the temple. The villagers felt that they needed another stone to break the coconuts brought by the devotees to offer for Lord Ganesh. They went to the sculptor to ask for the stone. The sculptor gave the first stone which was lying at the corner of his workshop. The villagers fixed the stone just outside of the temple. All the devotees bringing coconuts broke the coconuts on the stone before offering to the statue of Lord Ganesh. The statue, which stayed safely inside the temple, was worshipped with offerings like flowers, sweets, coconuts and incense, whereas the first stone had to bear rain and heat, and also it had to bear the hard hits of the coconuts.  


Moral:

  • The first stone was better and more deserving to become the statue, but the second stone, which was a little inferior to the first one became the statue. Talent is not the sole factor for success.
  • We must endure problems if we are to meet a bigger purpose in life.

Friday, 19 June 2020

The Jackdaw and the Doves

Once a jackdaw saw a flock of doves enjoying the good food. The jackdaw painted itself into white and joined the dove to enjoy the meal. Everything was fine until the jackdaw kept itself silent while eating. As the doves were having a nice conversation, the jackdaw also joined the conversation. As soon as it started to speak, the doves realised its true identity. The doves drove the jackdaw away by pecking it with beaks. Then, the jackdaw went back to its own flock of the jackdaws. As the jackdaw was white in colour, the other jackdaws also drove it away from their group.

Moral: Always accept your true nature, otherwise you will land nowhere.

-Based on Aesop's fable

Friday, 5 June 2020

It's Fine Today

- Douglas Malloch

Sure, this world is full of trouble 
I ain't said it ain't. 
Lord, I've had enough and double 
Reason for complaint; 
Rain and storm have come to fret me, 
Skies are often gray; 
Thorns and brambles have beset me 
On the road — but say, 
Ain't it fine today? 

What's the use of always weepin', 
Making trouble last? 
What's the use of always keepin' 
Thinkin' of the past? 
Each must have his tribulation — 
Water with his wine; 
Life, it ain't no celebration, 
Trouble? — I've had mine — 
But today is fine! 

It's today that I am livin', 
Not a month ago. 
Havin'; losin'; takin'; givin'; 
As time wills it so. 
Yesterday a cloud of sorrow 
Fell across the way, 
It may rain again tomorrow, 
It may rain — but say, 
Ain't it fine today? 

Friday, 29 May 2020

The Bird's Neigh

A bird was gifted with a beautiful voice to sing. Once it heard a neigh of a horse. The bird was enchanted by the neigh. The bird became disappointed because it could not neigh. It tried imitating the horse's neigh. In doing so, it forgot how to sing. 

Moral: We should appreciate our own gifts.


चराको हिन्हिनाई 

एकादेशमा सारै मिठो गीत गाउने एउटा चरा थियो। एक दिन त्यसले घोडा हिन्हिनाएको सुन्यो। त्यो चरा घोडाको हिन्हिनाईमा मोहित भयो र आफू हिन्हिनाउन नजानेकोमा निराश हुनथाल्यो।  त्यो चराले पनि हिन्हीनाउने अभ्यास गर्न थाल्यो।  अभ्यासको क्रममा त्यो चराले आफुले मिठो गीत गाउने सिप पनि बिर्सेर गयो। 

पाठ: अरुको इर्ष्या गर्दा आफुसंग भएको प्रतिभा पनि गुम्नसक्छ। 


-Based on Aesop's fable


Friday, 22 May 2020

If I Could Just Get Organized

- Douglas Malloch

There may be nothing wrong with you,
The way you live, the work you do,
But I can very plainly see
Exactly what is wrong with me.
It isn’t that I’m indolent,
Or dodging duty by intent;
I work as hard as anyone,
And yet I get so little done,
The morning goes, the noon is here,
Before I know, the night is near,
And all around me, I regret,
Are things I haven’t finished yet.
If I could just get organized!
I oftentimes have realized
Not all that matters is the man;
The man must also have a plan.

With you, there may be nothing wrong
But here’s my trouble right along;
I do the things that don’t amount
To very much, of no account,
That really seem important though
And let a lot of matters go.
I nibble this, I nibble that,
But never finish what I’m at.
I work as hard as anyone
And yet, I get so little done,
I’d do so much you’d be surprised,
If I could just get organized!

Friday, 12 July 2019

Prayer and Faith


“Is there anything more important than prayer?” asked the disciple to his master.

The master asked the disciple to go to a nearby bush and cut off a branch. The disciple obeyed. “Is the bush still alive?” asked the master.

“Just as alive as before,” answered the disciple.

“Now go and cut the roots,” said the master.

“If I do that, the bush will die,” said the disciple.

“Prayers are the branches of a tree, whose roots are called faith,” said the master. “There can be faith without prayer. But there can be no prayer without faith.”

-From Maktub by Paulo Coelho

Friday, 5 July 2019

The Oak and the Reeds

A giant oak stood near a brook in which grew some slender reeds. When the wind blew, the great oak stood proudly upright with its hundred arms uplifted to the sky. But the reeds bowed low in the wind.

The oak said proudly, "The slightest breeze that ruffles the surface of the water makes you bow your heads, while I, the mighty oak, stand upright and firm before the howling tempest."

As the oak was speaking, a great hurricane rushed out of the north. The oak stood proudly and fought against the storm, while the yielding reeds bowed low. The wind redoubled in fury, and all at once the great tree fell, torn up by the roots, and lay among the pitying reeds. The bowing reeds were unbroken and were unharmed by the wind.

Moral: Better to surrender when it is folly to resist than to resist stubbornly and be destroyed.

-Aesop's Fable